"You were victimized, you just did it now"/ Kristi gets "bad" with Olta: You are not a mother in this house

After Tuesday's show, when the residents all sat down in the yard to have dinner, a heated argument started between Olta and Kristi, after the latter told Olta that she is not a mother in this house.

Kristi said that Olta has not shown any element of harmony, which according to him, is the basis of being a mother. He added that he has never seen Olta spread harmony in the house, laugh or rejoice and according to him, until this point of the game, she has arrived with the character she has.

Olta was very touched by Kristi's words and told him that the fact that she doesn't show much of her sensitive side doesn't mean she's not a mother. She added that when Luizi was sick, she felt it to stay by his side and that's where she showed her motherly instinct.

This debate was followed by other discussions during the week, related to this topic and not only. Olta and Kristi spent the whole week discussing with each other.

Olta: I'm sorry that Kristi touched my weak point.

Kristi: I took that argument very seriously and you react like that?

Olta: I'm sorry that he used the element, how much of a mother I am in this house, to strengthen the dynamics of his game. I said sorry, he said absolutely not. It's such a shame that you create such a dynamic, just because you're nominated.

Kristi: Nothing hurt this.

Olta: Kristi tells me that I have not shown any element as a mother.

Kristi: You were victimized Olta, just done now.

Olta: I went and grabbed Kristi and told her, please, forgive me. I was touched, you can't show me the sensitivity.

Luizi: Are you touched? You took advantage of that whole situation.

Olta: I was passive in that whole story. You told Kristi, apologize. This is a very delicate subject.

Kristi: Olta has based her game only on manipulations, I want to see her in other positions. For example, to keep a kind of balance in the house, or to give harmony in the house.

Olta: Kristi does this discussion to create dynamics. It's very embarrassing.

Dea: I think Olta and Kristi should settle this conversation in low tones. It became a very big situation unnecessarily.

Elvis: Regardless of how the conversation between them is, Is it possible to ask the other what he had in mind?

Olta: Kristi answered me in a very arrogant way when I told her to apologize. Three hours had passed and that's why I started to laugh. "I'll play it" was a joke. We use it very often at home. I had come there devastated, I cried with Maestro at the laundry.

Kristi: There's no need to be victimized.

Olta: It is not victimization. The situation was different when I made the joke with Maestro.

Arbër: I am sorry for the relationship that has been created between them. I have seen them in many moments that have created debates. We are dealing with a mother, I have tried to be careful with the comments. It is beyond the game when we make such comments. I think that Kristi's behavior inside the house has come across as something extraordinary, because that's what Kristi wanted. Christ's behavior is normal. This is the reality. Sorry I can't do you justice here Krist. I do not think that you are an element that has served in the harmony of the house.

Zhaklin: I watch the Olta-Kristi debate on repeat. They point to arguments to normalize their relationship. The message that Kristi wanted to tell Olta was to be more loving or smile. Olta has not entered the house as a mother. He entered as Olta Gixhari. She is a mother at home with her son and her family. She entered there as a lady, to develop her professional side. It doesn't get any better, whether or not she shows off her motherhood. It is a personal matter. You, Christi, used an element that has nothing to do with the things I mentioned. It doesn't make her a good or worse person if she shows her motherly side.

Kristi: We cannot say that Olta is a beautiful person in here.  

Zhaklin: She did not enter as a mother, but as Olta Gixhari.

Kristi: If Olta will be more harmonious, it would be more beautiful. She has done things that have affected my balance at home, in relationships with others. It has tried more to destroy the balance than to fix it.

Olta: With Maestro, you broke the balance yourself.

Kristi: You made negative comments about me.

Olta: Tell me a comment.

 Kristi: Why stay with this, why stay with that. This affects.

Olta: When did I break your balance with the Maestro? From our relationship, I have left. You came several times to tell me why you don't stay with me.

Kristi: You ran away, you always ran away.

Olta: Yes, so I left you.